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How to Help Both Parents When Only One Needs a
Skilled Nursing Facility
If only one parent needs to
move to a skilled nursing facility, it can be difficult for both of them.
Having to live apart after being together so long can bring up a lot of
different emotions. However, there are a few ways you can help both parents in
this challenging situation. All
Species Nurse, LLC presents some tips provided by other writers for independent or researched columns and articles below.
Find the Perfect Skilled Nursing Facility
Ideally, you'll want a
facility within a reasonable driving distance from you and your remaining
parent. This makes visiting easier and ensures someone is nearby in an
emergency. Check ratings and reviews to
get an idea of the highest-rated options in your area. Take your time to choose
the perfect place and always go with your gut instinct during tours. If
something feels off, it's best to choose a different option.
Get Help From Professional Movers
Hiring professionals
to move your parent's things into their new community is an excellent idea. Not
only does this reduce the physical workload, but it also lets you focus on more
important tasks. Before hiring a company, read reviews online. Search
online for local movers and find companies with
generally positive reviews and only the highest ratings.
Consider Selling Your Parents' Home
Selling your parents' home
could help free up money to pay for skilled nursing care costs. The average national price of a semiprivate room in these facilities is $7,756 a month. Of course, this
average may be lower or higher based on your location.
Speak with both parents about
this decision, so long as both are capable of decision-making. Only late-stage dementia or Alzheimer's disease
would generally preclude one parent from this discussion. Ensure your asset
calculations are done accurately. To figure out home equity, you'll need to deduct the
amount owed on the mortgage from your home's current market value.
Make Plans for Your Other Parent
If your other parent chooses
to downsize, help them figure out their options. They may like the idea of an
independent living community because it would offer them plenty of
socialization opportunities. If the room is available and your parent agrees,
it may also make sense for them to move in with you or another sibling. Another
option is to find them a local apartment close to your chosen skilled nursing
facility.
Be Compassionate
Being compassionate and
available during this challenging time is the best thing you can do for both of
your parents. Be understanding if either parent is stressed, frustrated, or
depressed. Regularly visit the
skilled nursing facility so your loved one doesn't feel alone. Make regular
phone calls and frequent plans with your other parent because they'll need your
support now more than ever.
Help Both Parents in This Difficult Situation
The information can assist you
in helping both parents in this challenging situation. Now may also be a good
time for advanced end-of-life planning.
Information collected and written by Millie Jones
